Susan J. Farese of SJF Communications taught her 2 hour “Capturing Your Creativity with Haiku” workshop at the Escondido Library on February 27, 2025. Many thanks to Principal Librarian, Adult Services Azar Katouzian for hosting/coordinating the workshop and for her photos.
Thanks as always to all of the participants for attending, interacting and sharing their work!
Left to right: Debbie, Jessica, Susan, Debi, Pamela, Rudy and Oliver Photos by Azar Katouzian; Collage by SJF Communications
We began with an interactive fun ice breaker – getting to know each other.
After introductions and a review of her published work, Susan taught her Power Point presentation about writing Haiku and shared her nature photography as prompts to encourage Haiku writing. We all practiced writing Haiku and had the opportunity to share our work. As always, it was a great discussion and we equally had so much to say about the creative process and the parallels with Haiku poetry and visual arts.
Enjoy these Haiku from Susan’s nature photography prompts….
“Capturing Your Creativity with Haiku” Workshop
Escondido Library 2/27/2025
Sunset Cliffs – Photo by Susan J. Farese
Little waves be small
but will always strike truly
As us humans be
by Oliver (age 9)!
~
Mist above white waves
Rumbling sea below the rocks
People, perched above!
by Susan
Hummingbird – Photo by Susan J. Farese
Little hummingbird
Will fly faster peacefully
When the flowers bloom.
by Oliver
~
Master of the flight
Protective of its life space
Drinker of nectar
by Debi
Rocks at Torrey Pines State Beach- Photo by Susan J. Farese
Small pebbles might fall
still they keep their own balance
And strong in sunlight.
by Oliver
Sunset – Photo by Susan J. Farese
The blood-red night sky
Conjured from the depths of hell
Message from Hades
by Debi
Moon Rise and Yellow Traffic Light – Photo by Susan J. Farese
Captured by the Moon
Saw the signal to slow down
Thank you, universe
by Pamela
Carlsbad Flower Field – Photo by Susan J. Farese
I can find comfort
In a crowd of wild flowers
But not with people
by Pamela
~
Beautiful flowers
Delicate, colored petals
Waving in the breeze
by Debbie
Julian Leaves – Photo by Susan J. Farese
Crispy, rustling leaves
A potpourri of colors
Waiting for a rake
by Debbie
Great White Egret at Santee Lakes- Photo by Susan J. Farese
Susan (great white egret)
Ivory plunge
Contemplating the nest step
Great white egret soars!
Jacaranda Tree- Photo by Susan J. Farese
Jacaranda trees
Bloom but once annually
Purple hues unite!
by Susan
More Haiku Inspired by the workshop
My hesitant breath
Fear, my mountain Everest
Eyes open I jump.
by Rudy
~
Ruffles, the dog
Morning you are there
Hungry you seek attention
Soft coat ruffles hand.
by Rudy
~
Colors red and blue
Visit me and leave fast
Dreams of flying now.
by Rudy
Heavy
Blanket of darkness
Feels like a heavy blanket
Covering my soul
by Debi
~
Broken
Pieces of my heart
Shattering to the cruel Earth
I lie here, broken.
by Debi
~
Soaring, easy flight
Masters of the ancient sky
Behold, my dragon
by Debi
Writing in silence
Hum of imagination
Words vibrate inside
by Pamela
It’s 80 degrees
Doesn’t feel like wintertime
in Escondido
by Debbie
~
Pickle Ball has rules
Don’t volley in the kitchen
Or you’ll lose the point
by Debbie
~
Montessori School
Wonderful community
Of special people
by Debbie
Waikoloa
Warm sun, gently breaking waves
Me, fully relaxed
by Jessica
~
Sea turtle swimming
In the warm afternoon sun
So oblivious
by Jessica
~
With snorkel and mask
Sea turtles and rainbow fish
Such a sparkling world
by Jessica
For more information or to book a workshop (Individual or Group) with Susan: Information LINK: https://sjfcommunications.com/haiku-workshops/ Or, Email info@sjfcommunications.com or sjfcommunications@gmail.com.
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Susan J. Farese of SJF Communications taught her 2 hour “Capturing Your Creativity with Haiku” workshop at the Escondido Library on November 2, 2024.
Many thanks to Branch Manager Berlyne Arteaga for hosting/coordinating the November 2, 2024 workshop and for her photos of the group.
Thanks as always to all of the participants for attending, interacting and sharing their work!
Left to right: Phyllis, Susan, Lollie, Jan and June
Photos by Berlyne Arteaga and Susan J. Farese; Collage by SJF Communications
We began with an interactive fun ice breaker – getting to know each other.
After introductions and a review of her published work, Susan taught her Power Point presentation about writing Haiku and shared her nature photography as prompts to encourage Haiku writing. We all practiced writing Haiku and had the opportunity to share our work. As always, it was a great discussion and we equally had so much to say about the creative process and the parallels with Haiku poetry and visual arts.
Enjoy these Haiku from our Workshop….
“Capturing Your Creativity with Haiku” Workshop
Potrero Library 11/2/2024~
Hummingbird – Photo by Susan J. Farese
Jet roars past my nose
Wings blurring beyond man’s sight
Hummingbird visit
by Jan
Carlsbad Flower Fields – Photo by Susan J. Farese
Rainbow colors bloom
Mother Earth’s message to all
Spring is here again
by Jan
Coyote Chorus
Many voices sing off-key
Winters chill soft breath
~
Morning light fades dark
Cocooned warmth – feel hot breath
Open eyes – dog nose!
~
Innocence tumbles
Heart bleeds love lost in one blow
Domestic Abuse
by Jan
Winter
The coldest season
Animals hibernating
Snow on mountain tops
by June
People
People are funny
People run, walk, laugh, cry, talk
Also fat, skinny
by Phyllis
For more information or to book a workshop (Individual or Group) with Susan: Information LINK: https://sjfcommunications.com/haiku-workshops/ Or, Email info@sjfcommunications.com or sjfcommunications@gmail.com.
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By Guest Blogger, Alyssa Blake, BSN, RN (with Susan J. Farese, MSN, RN)
Celebrating Nurse’s Week (May 6-12, 2024)!
“Grandma’s Camp” by Alyssa Blake, BSN, RN
“Celebrating Nurse’s Week“
Many thanks to Alyssa Blake, BSN, RN for writing this guest blog!
In a world of advancing technology and pharmaceutical breakthroughs, we often focus on the latest and greatest drugs to treat patients.
Yet, something as simple as incorporating creativity into patient care may speed recovery and improve quality of life. Not only that, it may help address caregiver burnout.
In this blog post, we review the healing benefits of art for caregivers and patients and how to integrate it into patient care.
How does art help with healing?
Since the 1960s, different forms of art such as music, visual media, writing, and even dancing have been used to help patients. In fact, the concept of using art for healing forms the basis ofart therapy—a treatment in which mental health professionals use visual art to help patients process distressing events.
Through the act of creating art, people may better understand their illnesses. Further, it may help manage difficult emotions which could explain these health benefits.
We need to do more research to better understand this phenomenon. But, given what we do know, it’s safe to say the arts influence our physical and mental health and can be a great way to advance wellness.
Known as the matriarch of modern nursing, Florence revolutionized more than sanitation practices with her ideas. In her famous“Notes on Nursing: What it is, What it is Not,” she explains the influence of the environment on our health. Specifically, she highlights the impact of air, water, light, cleanliness, and drainage on our well-being.
After reading these inspiring words, many focus on improving air and water quality to promote health. However, we may also interpret these readings in the context of creative art and wellness. Indeed, in her writings, Florence mentions the impact of “beautiful objects,” and “brilliance of color” on patients’ recovery (Nightingale, 1860). She then discusses the need to include artwork in patient rooms and the importance of hobbies to foster well-being.
Keeping this guidance in mind, strategies healthcare centers may employ to combine art and medicine include:
Placing visual art and plants in rooms and common areas
Facilitating drawing, craft-making, writing, or music sessions.
Giving art supplies, coloring books, and journals to allow independent art creation
Encouraging appreciation through art interpretation exercises
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As a nurse and caregiver to my chronically ill father, I have witnessed the success of these techniques firsthand.
Working during a pandemic and supporting my father these last few years, I encountered many challenges. There were even several instances in which my father passed away and was brought back to life again
Throughout this hardship, what truly helped my father recover and prevented my family from falling apart was art. During his 6-month hospital stay, I made it a point to paint cherished scenes from snapshots of his beloved garden to portraits of our pets. I then hung these pictures in his hospital room. These artworks served not only as reminders of his favorite memories but also as motivators that encouraged him up until his discharge.
Besides making visual art during this trying time, I wrote poetry to express what I could not with ordinary words. Through this practice, I released pent-up negative emotions to manage stress and clear the way for hope to blossom.
Inspired by this experience, I began my own art businessSmile Canvas Creations to help others with art, like I did for my family. I also embarked on a campaign to share knowledge about art’s healing power, which has brought me here today.
Now that I have reviewed the health benefits of art and how to include it in patient care, there remains one last topic to discuss—how to address caregiver burnout with art.
Addressing Caregiver Burnout with Art
Since the pandemic began, there has been a mass exodus of healthcare workers from the field with many citing burnout in their decision to leave.
Factors that may contribute to this state include:
Understaffing
Long work hours
Lack of resources and support
Second-hand trauma from caring for patients
Lack of self-care
Besides increasing turnover, this emotional fatigue may increase medical errors and lead to poor health outcomes for patients and caregivers alike.
Chronic illnesses including heart disease, diabetes, and cancer
Immune system dysfunction
This phenomenon isn’t exclusive to just formal caregiving, though. Family caregivers face the same risk of burnout trying to meet the daily needs of sick loved ones.
Similar to patients, creative outlets can manage stress in these environments and improve all caregivers’ health.
In healthcare settings, administrators could implement training or continuing education classes that focus on creativity, for example. These classes might include drawing, music, or creative writing like haiku workshops. Alternatively, managers could install coloring posters in break rooms and organize “Paint and Sip Nights,” for coworkers to paint and socialize.
Nature photography and Haiku by Susan J. Farese, MSN, RN
Educators may also use these strategies to prepare students entering the field. For instance, one nursing program included a one-hour class inspired by theJapanese art of Kintsugi in their curriculum. This involved students repairing broken pottery with golden lacquer and self-reflection. After the exercise, students reported a greater sense of connection with others and appreciation of their work.
Although family caregivers may not have access to formal support like those mentioned above, they can find similar opportunities by joining support groups that host these activities.
Nature photography by Susan J. Farese
In brief, these creative activities allow caregivers to cathartically release negative emotions and improve their health. Likewise, incorporating art in patient care aids patients’ recovery.
What will you create now that you know about art’s extraordinary impacts on wellness?
Finally – Please stay tuned during the first week in May, 2024 for our Nursing and the Arts Podcast, where we will post an interview Alyssa Blake, BSN, RN in conversation with Susan J. Farese, MSN, RN!
Questions?: Email Susan at info@sjfcommunications.com
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The following are Haiku poems from my recent workshops in Lakeside and Casa de Oro, CA. It’s always so rewarding for me to see how creativity develops with attendees! Sometimes, my nature photography prompts (or attendee’s photos) will encourage and spark writing about the actual photos seen, sometimes, a creative spark ignites and words appear that bring the past to light!
Enjoy these Haiku….
A yellow moonrise
Will it being mischief or peace?
We shall wait and see
-Anonymous attendee at library
RESCUE ME
How miraculous
A sister! A family!
Light in the darkness
-Attendee who discovered she had a half-sister a few years ago….
after losing both of her parents.
~
Thirty-four years gone
It is still hard to believe
I live, love, for you.
-Attendee about the loss of her parent
Incessant drumming
Wet Earth, muddy paws, messy
Where are you sunshine?
Attendee who wrote this reflecting on the noisy (and seemingly endless) rain…
GRATEFUL
Phenomenal me
I have crawled through broken
To a life I love
~
34 years gone
It is still hard to believe
I live, love, for you.
Attendee wrote about resilience and loss…
FLOWERS
Birds of paradise
Colorful, feathery plumes
Gently swaying tall
-Attendee writing about a favorite flower, at library workshop
Once an awesome Miss
Succumbs to the elements
And passes away…
Time’s a miracle
That so loses its intrigue
The longer it goes.
Was it what you thought?
Are the gates really pearly?
Or was it a myth?
Did you get to hear
the celestial choir hymns?
Was it what you dreamed?
Are you joining in?
Do you feel at home there yet?
Do you know you are gone?
Did you meet Danny?
Is he who you thought he’d be?
Was he grown or not?
Was he as happy
To finally meet Mommy?
He waited so long.
Did you see Jesus?
Was he what you thought he’d be?
Did he know your name?
-Attendee writing about recent loss of her Mother
CEDAR WAXWINGS
This fluttering flock
All swooping down together
Perching on branches
Softly twittering
With jaunty crested heads and
Pale yellow bellies
Searching for berries
AS bright as their red-tipped wings
So hungry in Spring.
Their grumpy faces
Wearing black masquerade masks
Always make me smile
Attendee that enjoys birdwatching and is especially is intrigued by Cedar Waxwings!
~
HARPER
Leash Manners – take 2
An all-breed puppy
Soft white fur, muscle and bone
Perpetual smile
She’s ready to play
Joyful and exuberant
Yet happy to work
Busy all the time
She zooms through the garden to
Hunt, chase, dig and bark
I call her to me
She quivers with excitement
To practice our tricks
Looping around me
Weaving with agility
Through my walking legs
When we are both tired
We will snuggle together
Relaxed on the couch.
Attendee who write about her dog Harper!
CAREGIVING
I care, I love, who?
Never in my wildest dreams
My care for elders!
Truly I did so
Wholeheartedly giving all
Nothing left for myself
Now injured, who cares?
Overwhelming pain, depressed
Love, care for ME first!
Tender loving care
Memories of Mom and Dad
Worthiness of life!
Attendee reflecting on the toll and satisfaction that caregiving had for her…
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Promo for “Poetic Expressions in Nursing: Sharing the Caring”
“When it’s all said and done, there’s no profession as diverse, as the art and the science of being a nurse” -Susan J. Farese, MSN, RN
“Nursing is an incredibly enriching yet stressful profession and besides being a science, it is truly an art. This second edition of Poetic Expressions in Nursing: Sharing the Caring is dedicated to all nurses – past, present, and future. It is a celebration of nursing and a tribute to nurses, especially during this unexpected, unprecedented pandemic. Covid-19 took its toll on nurses during 2020 and hopefully the impact of stress and burnout will be lessened with time and the arts. Poetry can be a therapeutic and cathartic tool for nurses and other caring professions to deal with the angst, stressors or joys that accompany the profession“. – Susan J. Farese, MSN, RN
Originally published in 1993, Poetic Expressions in Nursing: Sharing the Caring now has a 2nd edition and is available online (eBook and paperback, and audiobook).
Poetic Expressions in Nursing: Sharing the Caring (2nd Edition) by Susan J. Farese, MSN, RN, SJF Communications
Here is the description of the book:
This exciting collection of freeform poetry with over 40 poems by Susan J. Farese, MSN, RN, is a sharing of both professional and personal thoughts and feelings. Susan is a strong advocate of the creative use of poetry to express the wonderment, frustration, dedication, and the love of nurses for their profession and their patients.
Included is a tribute poem to nurses by Mohan Chilukuri, MD and a bonus section of several of Susan’s Haiku Poems with her nature photography.
Susan invites you to share the passion and the traditions of nursing, and to explore the heart of the professional practice of nursing…sharing and caring.
Susan J. (Felice) Farese, MSN, RN, a native of NJ, received her Bachelor of Science (BSN) degree from Widener University and Masters of Science (MSN) from Seton Hall University. Her diversified nursing career includes military and civilian nursing within inpatient outpatient and academic settings- including experience as a clinician, educator, administrator, consultant, and nurse entrepreneur.
E-Book – extended DISCOUNTED price on Kindle eBook: $0.99!
Paperback is also available ($10.99):
Audiobook (narrated by Susan):
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Happy Nurses Week 2021 to Nurses: past, present, future and those who support them!
“When it’s all said and done, there’s no profession as diverse, as the art and the science of being a nurse” -Susan J. Farese, MSN, RN
One week of celebration, however is not enough! It has indeed been a ‘different’ year. Who would have thought that a pandemic was looming? The stress and burnout for nurses has seemed unsurmountable at times this past year. I am hopeful for nurses to feel resilient and thrive as people receive vaccinations and stay vigilant in social distancing, handwashing, being sensible, etc. We are all too important to take life (and nurses) for granted.
“Nursing is an incredibly enriching yet stressful profession and besides being a science, it is truly an art. This second edition of Poetic Expressions in Nursing: Sharing the Caring is dedicated to all nurses – past, present, and future. It is a celebration of nursing and a tribute to nurses, especially during this unexpected, unprecedented pandemic. Covid-19 took its toll on nurses during 2020 and hopefully the impact of stress and burnout will be lessened with time and the arts. Poetry can be a therapeutic and cathartic tool for nurses and other caring professions to deal with the angst, stressors or joys that accompany the profession.” – Susan J. Farese, MSN, RN
Nurses should be celebrated for all they have done for patients and their families.
Originally published in 1993, my book Poetic Expressions in Nursing: Sharing the Caring now has a 2nd edition and is available online (eBook and paperback, and soon to be available as an audiobook).
Special promotion for Nurses Week: the eBook of Poetic Expressions in Nursing: Sharing the Caring (2nd Edition) by Susan J. Farese, MSN, RN, SJF Communications ~ has a DISCOUNTED price on Kindle eBook: $0.99 for Nurses Week and might be extended!
This exciting collection of freeform poetry with over 40 poems by Susan J. Farese, MSN, RN, is a sharing of both professional and personal thoughts and feelings. Susan is a strong advocate of the creative use of poetry to express the wonderment, frustration, dedication, and the love of nurses for their profession and their patients.
Included is a tribute poem to nurses by Mohan Chilukuri, MD and a bonus section of several of Susan’s Haiku Poems with her nature photography.
Susan invites you to share the passion and the traditions of nursing, and to explore the heart of the professional practice of nursing…sharing and caring.
Susan J. (Felice) Farese, MSN, RN, a native of NJ, received her Bachelor of Science (BSN) degree from Widener University and Masters of Science (MSN) from Seton Hall University. Her diversified nursing career includes military and civilian nursing within inpatient outpatient and academic settings- including experience as a clinician, educator, administrator, consultant, and nurse entrepreneur.
Here is the link to an inspiring, poignant and important interview that I was a guest on – the ‘Love Conquers Alz‘ #Podcast Episode #22 ‘On The Power of Art’. The incredibly compassionate, articulate and empathetic hosts were podcasters/filmmakers Susie Singer Carter and Kassi Crews. We recorded it on Mothers Day, 2020 and it was posted online on Wednesday, October 7, 2020.
I was so honored and it was such a pleasure for me to be a guest on the Love Conquers Alz Podcast! I know that my maternal grandmother and soulmate, Ann, (who suffered from early onset Alzheimer’s Disease and passed away in 1971) was listening from up above when I shared my tribute #poem to her, ‘Ann’s Zest Ends’ ! She passed away in 1971.
Besides reading Ann’s’ Zest Ends on Love Conquers Alz, I also read my poem “Caregiver” dedicated to all persons caring for family members or friends with dementia and other disabilities or diseases. Caregiving can be truly stressful, and caregivers need to take care of themselves so they can care for others.
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We had a wonderful virtual 2 hour SJF Communications Haiku workshop, ‘Capturing Your Creativity With Haiku’ via Zoom on August 29th.
Best part of it…these were my two friends, Ann Stowe and Karen De Arana, that decided to give Haiku a try! Wow, they really delivered!
We began with a review of my professional history and experience with Haiku and poetry as well as a short ice-breaker.
Next, after introductions and a review of my work with poetry, I taught my Power Point presentation about writing Haiku and shared several (16) of my nature (and other) photography photos as prompts to encourage Haiku writing. Besides the photo prompts, we had a choice to also write either about our experiences dealing with the isolation and angst of the Covid-19 pandemic or the ‘best’ or ‘worst’ day in our lives.
Everyone practiced writing Haiku and finally we had the opportunity to share our work. It was a delightful time with two fabulous ladies. They wrote some amazing Haiku!
Here’s a glimpse of our enlightened attendees written Haiku along with photo prompts we chose that day!
Joshua Tree Flowers –Photo by Susan J. Farese, SJF Communications
Lying in the grass
Wind coaxing flowers to dance
Gazing at the sky!
~ Karen
Sunset Cliffs, Point Loma
Photo by Susan J. Farese, SJF Communications
Roaring waves crashing
Thundering across the cliffs
Loudly pounding shore!
~ Ann
Moon Rise & Yellow Traffic Light
Photo by Susan J. Farese, SJF Communications
All of a sudden
Moon rose at the yellow light
Serendipity!
~ Susan
Julian Leaves – Photo by Susan J. Farese, SJF Communications
Autumn is now here
A kaleidoscope palette
Welcomes the season!
~Ann
Summer stirs the trees
Leaves fall as darkness chills air
Look! Vibrant colors!
~Karen
Waterfall at Tahquitz Canyon Trail
Photo by Susan J. Farese, SJF Communications
Hike in the canyon
Flowers, scents and landscapes too
Look – A waterfall!
~ Susan
Great White Egret at Santee Lakes
Photo by Susan J. Farese, SJF Communications
Waited patiently
Water serene, time just right-
The egret took fight!
~ Susan
Thoughts on Covid-19 & the Coronavirus Pandemic
(Stock Photo)
Consumed with media
Newsflash! People are dying!
Covid sucks big time.
~ Ann
Depression and angst
Weight gain and isolation
When will it all cease?
~ Karen
We celebrated with a high five!
And ended on a happy workshop note!
And when it as nearly over, I read my poems ‘Ann’s Zest Ends’ and my Haiku ‘Crisis & Hope’ aloud. I really miss doing live presentations and readings..
Come on Covid-19. Lets get this pandemic under control so we can truly be social again!
I look forward to teaching many more workshops in the future – virtual or in person!
Thrilled to announce our new SJF Communications Author Clients: Guts, Grit & The Grind: A MENtal Mechanics MANual – Advanced Mechanics in Preventative Maintenance, which is the second of four books in the Guts, Grit & The Grind books on Men’s Mental Health/Wellness!
Second of Four Innovative Books on Men’s Mental Health
Announces Launch August 16th:
Guts, Grit & The Grind: A MENtal Mechanics MANual –
Advanced Mechanics in Preventative Maintenance
The Stories, Science and Strategy to Help Men Build and Maintain a Life Worth Living
DENVER (August 6, 2020) — Today United Suicide Survivors International (United Survivors) announces the publication of the second book in a series to help support men’s mental health, “Guts, Grit & The Grind: A MENtal Mechanics MANual – Advanced Mechanics in Preventative Maintenance” edited by Sally Spencer-Thomas Psy.D., Sarah Gaer, MA and Frank King and published by BDI Publishers. The book officially launches on August 16, 2020 with pre-orders available now on Amazon or Barnes and Noble.
Guts, Grit & The Grind Book Series Editors (Left to Right):
Increasingly, guys are embracing the fact that mental health is an important part of men’s health. This self-help book gives men the tools to increase the psychological hardiness they need to face tough times. Readers will be inspired by stories of resilience and transformation.
A blend of a “Chicken Soup for the Man’s Soul,” and a therapist’s workbook, Guts, Grit & The Grind is a collection of men’s stories of coping with trauma, addiction, depression and more. The format is like an automobile owner’s manual, using car metaphors many men can relate to in “preventative maintenance.”
“As a former NFL player, I know what happens when tough guys try to power their way through emotional challenges. It just doesn’t work,” says Dwight Hollier, former linebacker for the Miami Dolphins and Indianapolis Colts and current Senior Associate Athletics Director for the University of North Carolina. Guts, Grit & The Grind gives men another pathway through their pain.”
“When life gets stressful, the first things to go are often those ‘non-urgent and important’ parts of our lives — the things that keep us well,” said Sally Spencer-Thomas, psychologist and co-editor, “This book reminds guys to keep these action steps front and center.”
“Many books are written by remarkable people, but Guts, Grit, & The Grind is a collection of essays from regular guys who have remarkable wisdom they’ve gained through lived experiences or professional expertise,” says Peter Dudley, one of the storytellers in the series.
”I hope these books show that the unwritten rules of manhood aren’t actually rules, and that strength comes not from bearing the unbearable but from sharing the unsharable. The vulnerability in these essays makes mental health approachable and discussable. I hope it gives people in distress a light in the fog.”
“The difference between hard times and unbearable times is often believing you are alone in your pain,” said Sarah Gaer, co-editor of Guts, Grit & The Grind. “By walking alongside our courageous storytellers, readers feel the healing power of men sharing their experiences and lessons learned.”
“Being from the South, an area of the US where people take great joy in sharing oral history, as entertainment, as well as education, I understand the power of storytelling, especially among men,” reflects co-editor and comedian Frank King. “Guts, Grit & The Grind has tapped that power, featuring stories of the struggles of men, by men, for men, emphasizing most importantly, how these men are coping.”
CONTRIBUTING WRITERS: Sean Adam, Bart Andrews, Ph.D., Dr. Dennis Archambault, Johnnie Calloway, Peter Dudley, Efrem Epstein, Brendan Fitzgerald, Glenn Freezeman, Guy Giard, Mark Jon Gottschalk, Dwight Hollier, Gabe Howard, Einar Jensen, Paul Lavalee, John Marx, Jerry Meddock Jr., Rick Strait, Joe Williams.
CHAPTERS of Guts, Grit & The Grind: A MENtal Mechanics MANual – Advanced Mechanics in Preventative Maintenance include:Chapter 1: Find Your “Classic Car Club” Community; Chapter 2: Family is Your Pit Crew; Chapter 3: Friends Refuel Us; Chapter 4: Tune Up with Total Wellness; Chapter 5: Making Meaning and Zen Motorcycle Maintenance.
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